Can I get proof of a competing offer? The answer may surprise you

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Multiple Counter Frequently the questions (actually, usually it’s the answers) on Trulia Voices make me want to slam my head into a wall. Trulia Voices is a “online community” where real estate buyers, sellers and professionals can ask and answer questions of any topic relating to real estate.

Head-slamming content aside, there are also thought-provoking discussions that occur on occasion.

Recently, “George S” a home buyer in Anthem, AZ posed this question:

I had an offer of $205,000 that was being considered by the bank on a property listed for $225000. Suddenly, at the last moment, the listing agent told my agent that there was another offer of $220000 that the bank was considering. We matched that price and got the property. But now I am wondering what proof is there that this offer really existed and that the listing agent was just not jacking the price up.

That’s a great question.

Here was my first response:

George –

You won’t get proof. I understand why you’re asking, but the bank isn’t going to provide the proof.

This happens all the time on bank owned properties.

Consider this. The listing agent’s commission was probably in the range of 3% of sales price. So if the sale went through at $205K, the listing agent’s commission would be $6,150. If the listing agent jacked up the price to $220K, the commission would be $6,600 — a difference of $450.
Most bank owned property listing agents work bank owned homes exclusively, and usually have multiple listings from the same lenders.

If the agent "jacks up" the price to make an extra $450, they risk blowing the sale completely, upsetting the bank, who then pulls ALL their listings from the agent.

It would take an utter fool to make that huge risk for $450. (and the difference is probably even less than $450 as the commissions paid to bank-owned listers is quite often less than 3%.)

And I’m sticking by that. It would take an utter fool of a listing agent to claim there were other offers when none existed.

But then Voices uber-user Dunes correctly pointed out that, sadly, utter fools exist in the real estate space (and lets face it, every other space).

A couple of months ago we had a client that submitted an offer on a home that had been listed for 73 days. A couple of hours after the offer was sent in, the listing agent called and said something to the effect of, “Just wanted you to know that we got another offer in today, so the seller is requesting that you submit your ‘highest and best’ offer. I pointed out that it was a remarkable coincidence that two offers came in that morning on a listing that had been on the market for 73 days. After consulting with our client, we informed the listing agent that the offer submitted WAS the ‘highest and best’. In yet another remarkable coincidence, our clients offer was accepted the next day.

Maybe there really was another offer. More likely, the agent tried to employ a “tactic” of claiming there were other offers in an attempt to squeeze more money from our client – and for his seller. A noble gesture, but one that rarely works.

This brings up the question though of whether competing offers should be disclosed, and more precisely to the point of debate on the Trulia thread, should the existence of competing offers somehow be proved to other buyers interested in the property?

Let’s say for the sake of argument that if a listing agent says, “We have other offers,” that proof must be provided. How is that going to work? I can assure you that I’m not about to release ANY information on my buyer’s offer that could compromise their position. On the Trulia thread Alan May (who seems like a stand up guy) suggested the listing agent provide a copy of the offer to other buyer agents.

Well not if there is ANYTHING in that offer that could compromise my buyers position. That would include, but not be limited to, items such as:

  • The buyer’s name and their contact info
  • The offer price
  • The financing terms
  • The amount of earnest money
  • The closing date
  • Any contingencies
  • Any requested concessions
  • Any variation of the standard boilerplate contract language

Personally, I don’t see what good an “offer” that was missing this information would do anyone. Alan said with the other buyers agent’s name, that he could call that agent just to confirm they had submitted an offer.

My initial reaction to a buyer’s agent calling me to see if I have a buyer with an offer in on the property is, “it’s none of your business”.

Why should I compromise my buyers position so your buyer can feel better? (or submit a stronger offer than they were considering – potentially displacing my buyer’s offer).

“But Jay, how does simply confirming your client has submitted an offer – if no details are provided – compromise your buyers position?

Quite simply, having another buyer and their agent with ANY information regarding my buyer potentially compromises them. And if there is but a sliver of a chance of compromising my clients position then I’m not doing it, plain and simple.

Say I tell Agent Joe that yes, we’ve submitted an offer on 123 Main Street. Joe then tells his client, “Yep. Someone has an offer in”. Joe’s client may then think, “Well crap. I really want that house. I was ready to submit a low offer in the hopes the seller would bite. But now since someone else is already in the mix, I better beef this offer up and go all in.”

BAM. My client’s position has potentially been compromised.

In fact, Agent Joe just compromised HIS clients position by calling me and informing me they are interested. With that info, albeit limited, I call my client and say, “Hey, just got word someone is thinking about jumping in on 123 Main St. Let’s get this thing wrapped up before they get a chance at it.” And BAM, now Joe’s client is left out.

Alan suggested that a third party could be sent the offer for confirmation. He even suggested broker for example.

But no broker with an agent involved in the transaction can be considered a neutral party. Regardless of how ethical and upstanding they may be, that broker has a responsibility to represent that client. In fact, they owe that client a fiduciary duty. There’s no way I’m sending my clients offer to another broker who has a client interested in the property. NO WAY.

It was suggested the agent’s association could vet the offer and confirm its existence. My association has 8 or 9 employees to service 8,000 agents. I can’t imagine dumping “offer confirmation” on an Association. They don’t have the time or resources to handle what could be hundreds of offers a day. And what if the competing agents are in different associations? The association as a “neutral party” won’t work.

I suppose some enterprising start-up could develop an “offer confirmation service”, but that is fraught with issues as well. How would confidentiality be maintained? What would it cost, and who would absorb those costs? How much time would it add to an already lengthy and convoluted process?

To be honest, I can’t think of a way to prove there are competing offers.

Don’t get me wrong, I understand completely the prospective buyers position here. My initial response talked about the $450 that would go to the agent for “jacking up the price”, but there is difference of 15 grand in this case to the buyer. That’s a serious chunk of change, even spread across a 30 year mortgage. I get why a buyer wants confirmation that other offers exist on a property of interest. Sadly, John Q. Public doesn’t have a lot of trust in real estate agents. The vast majority of that this industry has brought upon ourselves. Simply saying, “trust me, there have been other offers submitted” isn’t going to fly. That so many try this “send us your highest and best offer” ploy doesn’t help. I also understand a listing agents desire to get the most money for their seller. That’s what listing agents do, and rightfully so.

So I sit here struggling, writing a 1500 word tome that provides no real answers. Should anyone have happened to read this far, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Should proof of competing offers be provided to other potential buyers? If so, any suggestions for how to do that without compromising the position of any of the parties involved?

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Very interesting post. I was wondering if an existing offer has been submitted to the seller does that at times deter potential buyers from making an offer? I have just made an offer on a house that was just been put on the market. My question is 1. will other buyers be informed that an offer exist when they go in for a showing? 2. If so, would they be less likely to make an offer with that knowledge? Wouldn't it be better if they didn't know then submit an offer and then find out. Many questions I had were answered by reading this article. Thanks!

Wow, your explanation says it all. I often get confused with the proofs and banking things too, but now I know what happens behind the scene.

Not sure how I missed this post before but it's not only well written but hits on a major "issue" we face in the real estate industry. It's just my opinion, but I'd venture to say most agents would not risk losing a deal over $450. After splits, referrals, brokerage fees, etc. they stand to get only a portion of that "extra" cash anyway. Yes, there are some unscrupulous folks out there but the vast majority of "us" are playing within the rules. If I say I have another offer, you best believe I do...always.

I have had my own experience over the past year with last minute bids coming in to the table after nothing happening for months. This happened in the Orlando area. In one of my failed transactions the builder actually took a lower bid than what I had offered. On Friday it looked like a sure thing but by Monday it was a totally different situation. Apparently the builder’s realtor knew someone or the realtor bought it themselves. A couple weeks later the property was flipped and already on the market for a higher price.

This is a weird case where the higher bid did not win out but it does make an interesting point. Realtors that also dabble in buying real-estate could be the competition. In my case, I believe that is what happened.

The story has a good ending. I now have a two bedroom condo that overlooks Lake Eola. I also got a good price. It just took some luck and time to get.

My recent post We love our place

Why can't all offers be made public after the closing. That would force all the agents who might be tempted to do this from taking the risk. Seems simple to me.

Once the offer has been made, it should be required that the listing agent supply proof that the competing offer was genuine. At that point, no compromise exists, and the listing agent should be liable for the increase in purchase price which, lets face it, was obtained by deception.

Of course, if the competing offer was, genuine, the listing agent would have nothing to worry about, and neither client would have been compromised.

Same this happen to me. List at $324,900 we offered $299,000 they counter with $320,000. We counter back with $310,oo0 then all of a sudden after 121 days on the market some offered $334,000 but the real estate agent said they would sale it to us for asking if we offer.

What BS. They handcuff you once they find out you truly like a house. Watch out and it should be illegal.

I am a buyer and just finished the highest and best game with an REO property. I did not win, but in order to be a better buyer and perhaps be able to complete the transaction next time, I would like to know what the completed contract terms were. It seems to me that once buyer and seller have signed the contract, that information as well as the other competing offers (price and trems) should be made available to the competing parties. Where is the harm in that? If the original deal falls through, it most likely will be after several weeks and the players may have moved on. If not, one or more may still be interested in the property and the game begins again.

The seller is not hurt, the real estate agents are not hurt, and the potential buyers know that there were actually multiple offers and can make better decisions next time.

Jay,

It looks like a few did read your entire blog! I think your first explanation makes the most sense. No agent in their right mind would "make up" another offer. Most agents simply want to sell the house, end of story. Why risk blowing it and have your only buyer walk? If you "made up" and offer, you have violated your fiduciary duty to your seller.

I can see how it would raise suspicion in the mind of the buyer. In my experience, when the price is dropped to a certain level, suddenly a few buyers will come out that were watching it. If there has been zero offers, with no price changes, and then suddenly there are offers, that raises more questions if I am representing the buyer. I can always respond with, as you did, this is our highest and best.

I think the chances of someone making up a fictitious offer, though not impossible, is very unlikely. There is too much down side, primarily losing the one buyer you do have

Chris - I don't see how you were cheated in any of the examples you gave. In the first one, you took a chance by conducting a pre-inspection before you made an offer. If the home sold while you were taking the extra time to inspect, isn't that your own fault for not making an offer with and inspection contingency? You still have the ability to back out of a contract after an inspection on REO properties, and some lenders will even make repairs. Sounds like you just needed better advice from your own agent, but you weren't cheated by the listing agent. It's their job to sell the home for their client, the seller, not to wait for you to conduct inspections and decide if you want to make an offer.

In the second example, you decided to back out because you didn't want to pay more. Again, your decision, and you said it did sell to the other buyer, so you weren't being lied to by the listing agent about a phantom second offer. And, in the third example, you just didn't move quick enough and someone bought it first. Again, how in the world were you misled or cheated?

Sounds like you just need to hasten your decisions, and maybe to do a better job of interviewing the agents you choose to represent you. I don't think it's fair to blame your lack of results on the listing agents or to claim you were cheated.

Seems like most posts are from real estate agents. I'm not, but I'd like to share my experiences.

My husband and I are in the market to buy a home. We're pre-approved and do not have a house to sell. We've found 3 homes over the last few months that we've been interested in. All three have been on the market for over a year with no recent reductions (within the past month or so).

The first was an REO that was snaked out from under us. We had worked out with the agent a "pre-inspection" prior to our offer since he said no contingencies but the day our inspector was there two other showings happened. Mind you, up to this point, there hadn't been any recent showings according to the REO agent. Our inspector said that he had walked away from his paperwork for a moment to come back and find an agent looking at them. An offer was put on the house that afternoon.

The second was a normal sale and the day that we were going to put an offer on someone else put an offer on it first. The agent played the "don't bother"/"submit your offer" game with our agent. It was more than we wanted to spend. We decided to let it go, and it went.

The third is a short sale. We were planning to meet our agent this Wednesday to put together our offer. Our agent was just informed that they received another offer this morning. This is the incident that brought me to with article.

I know it's not unusual to have multiple offers. But we're not having any luck across the board. My husband has grown very skeptical of both selling agents and our buying agent (pushing us to go over what we said we wanted to spend). So much so that we've fired two agents. We're at our wits end. We don't know wether to trust the agents or not. Obviously the second home we lost was legit but it's making me not want to buy.

Buyers, don't get stuck on a single property. There are millions of properties for sale. If someone claims to have another offer on the table, do this. Make no offer and notify the owner/listing agent that your not going to waste your time if someone else is going to out bid you. You may mention that if the other offer is not accepted you would like to make an offer, although I never do. Very frequently, more than 50% of the time the listing agent has come back to me asking for my offer. My offer then is always at least 15% lower that it was going to be before the competing offer was mentioned. Here is the rational you are correctly using. If the other offer is not accepted it must have been a low offer or something is undesirable in the deal. If the other offer is never made then you are the only 'bidder'. Remember if the property sells there are millions more to choose from!

Excellent article Jay. I enjoyed reading the comments just as much. I would agree with the opinions that many have about the lack of professionals in our industry that seem to hang out and provide a constant source of misinformation over at Trulia. It always amazes me when Realtors comment on legal matters in other states where they have no expertise.
.-= Bill Gassett´s last blog ..Handling Offers When Selling a Massachusetts Home =-.

For all of those who intend to lie about offers, you're probably committing civil fraud under Arizona's Consumer Fraud Act. Here's the meat of it (A.R.S. 44-1522(A)):

"The act, use or employment by ANY PERSON of ANY DECEPTION, deceptive act or practice, fraud, false pretense, false promise, misrepresentation, or concealment, suppression or omission of any material fact WITH THE INTENT THAT OTHERS RELY upon such concealment, suppression or omission, in connection with the SALE or ADVERTISEMENT of any merchandise whether or not any person has in fact been misled, deceived or damaged thereby, is declared to be an unlawful practice."

Before you object and say that real estate is not "merchandise," let me clear that up. For the purposes of consumer fraud, real estate IS merchandise: "'Merchandise' means any objects, wares, goods, commodities, intangibles, real estate, or services." A.R.S. 44-1521(5).

It would be great to know if there were truly other offers, and especially helpful to know the terms.

Typically, the listing agent simply claims to have one or more offers and requests "highest and best."

I wouldn't want my buyer's offer being sent to anyone else. However, ironically, in the California Association of Realtors Forms, one of the standard disclosures, provided after acceptance of the offer, states that the listing agent may disclose "the existence, terms, or conditions of Buyer's offer unless . . . all parties have signed a written confidientiality agreement." So, I suppose the listing agent can divulge any information they want to provided they are not also the buyer's agent.

This could make things very interesting, though I haven't seen it done before.
.-= Christine Donovan´s last blog ..Is Your Offer for on a Costa Mesa Home More Likely to be Accepted if You Pay the Seller’s Closing Costs? =-.

MyTitleGuy "As a consumer first, does it reallly hurt anyone to say “the highest offer is X”? I would think that transparancy would be a better win for all the parties….am I wrong?"

You are absolutely correct. But throughout this who blog and the thread on trulia it became apparent that no realtor (well almost none) want to be honest and show the buyers what is really going on.

Since we can safely assume that a realtor will NOT show there really is a competing offer I say the safest thing when told that is to drop your offer in reply to this kind of push.

Great post Jay, my wife and I bought 3 REO properties in Phoenix almost a year ago. We paid cash, obviously a better bargaining position. How ironic that we received the "highest and best" language from 3 different agents representing 3 different banks. We chose not to increase any of our offers, (1 was not suitable for FHA financing so I figured that one was in the bag), we got all 3. I would have liked to know if there were actually other offers. As a consumer first, does it reallly hurt anyone to say "the highest offer is X"? I would think that transparancy would be a better win for all the parties....am I wrong?

Jay - I wrote a post on this topic just over a year ago that has nearly 200 comments. I didn't read all of the comments here, but you might find this to be helpful/interesting:

http://activerain.com/blogsview/958061/My-Plan-to...
.-= Jason Crouch´s last blog ..The Importance of Knowing Your Audience =-.

Only here because I received an email asking me to explain what I meant by this..

"BTW Jeffrey you are totally correct in your portrayal of me..

Good point you win.."

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I did not mean I was a frustrated buyer unfamiliar with the process who is angry at Agents....

I meant I have had discussions with hundreds/thousands of Agents and after that have nothing to really say if all ya got is suggesting the other side of the view (if it's a non-agent) must be that of a frustrated consumer just blabbing with no knowledge of the industry or who's still trying to figure out how to buy or possibly a Troll ect.

I have little to say tocomments like "Hopefully someday you will be successful in purchasing your home and see this discussion from another angle." as if that makes some sort of point like no need to consider your position you are just anti-industry anyway.....I have made hundreds and hundreds of comments in a National Forum in support of using Agents and in support of their credibility over the past 15 months...

Thanks for confirming I have do have reasons to do so no longer and putting my mind more at ease in saying hundreds and hundreds of times in the next 15 months in a National Forum where I have might possibly have "EARNED" a tad bit of credibility....

Don't trust Agents because........

I know very well about Trulia Voices Community. Trulia Voice Community is helpful for everyone like real estate buyers, sellers and professionals.

James said "As a listing agent, if I have an offer I say so and expect the buyer agent to take me at my word. As a buyer’s agent, if I’m told that there is an offer by the listing agent I believe him."

James said "If you submit and offer and the seller states (or directs his agent to state) that there are other offers (when there are none) to entice you to up your offer and you decide that you are willing to pay more to secure the property how have you been wronged? The fact is, the seller wasn’t willing to accept your offer as written and you were willing to pay more."

Jeff said "Even as a buyer’s agent, I believe in the blind bid. I have to trust in my colleagues…and I say that with a sigh, because I know of a few bad apples... But, providing your client with the best info and explaining the game is all you can do."

Dunes said " if the offer is unreasonable the SELLER can refuse it"

James said "the seller would still have to make a counter offer, so what’s the point?"

Here is the point. Realtors do not trust each other. (Thanks Jeff) They know the poor buyer is being lied to about multiple offers at least at times.

If the seller is not willing to accept my offer come back with a counter offer. Simply say I reject your offer. COme up in price. That is simple enough. No fraud could be claimed that way. I try to make you come up in price, you try to make me come down. Either we meet in the middle or no deal happens.

By claiming false multiple offers (as suggested by James) the buyer has been lied to. The sales contract is based on misleading information and that is enough to invalidate a contract. If a contract is based on false and misleading information it can be (and has been) invalidated in court. Contracts are invalidated when the basis they were formed on has been found to be fraudulent.

Believe it or not, in circumstances where there may be multiple offers, a seller agent may disclose this information not only to benefit his client but also to benefit the buyer who may actually want the property and would be willing to strengthen their offer. Notice I said "strengthen their offer" rather then raise their price. I have represented buyers who have lost in multi-offer situations to lower price offers with contingencies more favorable to the sellers, especially true in REO situations where banks don't like inspection contingencies.

Perhaps we should change the expression to "highest AND best" to "higher OR best", or maybe just plain "best".

Isn't asking for the buyer's best offer the same as saying your offer isn't good enough, I need you to do better? Isn't it the same as making a counter offer? I think it's the same question, just different words.

I am not a lawyer, but as I understand it, disclosing that multiple offers exists when there are none is certainly a lie, an untrue statement, a misrepresentation. In order for fraud to occur, the victim must suffer and prove consequent damage. I think that in order to prove consequent damage, the buyer must show the seller would have accepted the original offer had the buyer not increased the offer based on the misrepresentation.

Certainly, the surest way to know there are other offers is when the seller agent calls and says "Sorry, the seller has accepted the other offer".

I just tell my buyer clients to just give it their best shot and hope for the best.

Caveat Emptor.
.-= Joe Sheehan´s last blog ..Pinewood Derby =-.

First of all, I did not come up with this false multiple offer scenario, I have only kept with the line of discussion that was brought up by others. I, personally, do not and would not use this tactic nor do I even think that it benefit my seller client in the first place.

You said: "If the seller is not willing to accept my offer come back with a counter offer. Simply say I reject your offer. COme up in price. That is simple enough. No fraud could be claimed that way. I try to make you come up in price, you try to make me come down. Either we meet in the middle or no deal happens."

This is exactly what I stated should be the correct way of handling the negotiation in the first place in several of my prior comments.

Joe Sheehan says: "I am not a lawyer, but as I understand it, disclosing that multiple offers exists when there are none is certainly a lie, an untrue statement, a misrepresentation. In order for fraud to occur, the victim must suffer and prove consequent damage. I think that in order to prove consequent damage, the buyer must show the seller would have accepted the original offer had the buyer not increased the offer based on the misrepresentation."

And I could not have said it better myself.

Again I will say that I do not agree with any agent that uses this tactic and I would not do it myself ... This is only a discussion of a scenario that a few have brought up that may or may not have had happen to them.

As I said before, I do not have an inherent distrust of other agents as you are implying or as it appears that you have. Of course there are some bad apples but there are bad auto mechanics, bartenders and preachers too.

BTW Jeffrey you are totally correct in your portrayal of me..

Good point you win..

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Just in closing to support of the importance of these kinds of issues as a major.. I said MAJOR consideration when discussing Consumer Trust and/or Credibility in anyway...

Consider this...RISMEDIA, February 5, 2010—"Real estate-related issues were the leading legal service request among members (customers) of Pre-Paid Legal Services, Inc. during 2009 followed by 2) consumer finance, 3) family law, 4) collections and 5) estate planning. The top five legal service requests for 2009 is based on the total volume of 2.3 million member requests for legal services to the 40 independent provider law firms that assisted Pre-Paid Legal members throughout the U.S. and four provinces of Canada for calendar year 2009."
http://rismedia.com/2010-02-04/real-estate-issues...

Things like that just make me lean the direction I do

I am well aware of the public perception of real estate agents. It is unfortunate that the few destroy the reputations of many. The stats you quote don't surprise me especially with the climate the way it has been the last few years.

If I could wave a wand and fix the industry and the perception of the industry I'd do it. Sadly, I'm one broker who can only serve his clients the best way I can.

I heard Jay has a wand ... maybe he'll wave his. :)

"As a buyer’s agent, if I’m told that there is an offer by the listing agent I believe him."

Then in my opinion as a Consumer you should be held liable for the $15000 for making that assumption if it is incorrect and there is no other offer. It is your assumption based on whatever, it's not your CLIENTS assumption and your CLIENT should not pay more than necessary because YOU choose to make that assumption.

Anyone is free to disagree with me....I think the question Agents should be asking themselves is not who is right or wrong but which one of us is the Public, the buyer pool going to agree with.

Answering that question will supply accurate information for Agents in determining how to gain and maintain the Trust of Consumers IMHO....

We disagree and that's ok....I have nothing at risk or any Services to sell, I'm not competing for clients, or looking for leads..It's just my opinion

Dear Dunes,

Hopefully someday you will be successful in purchasing your home and see this discussion from another angle.

This is free market at work and you cannot take out all the uncertainty. If you don't wish to bid on a property don't. Depending on market conditions you may or may not get the property. It is your choice!

There will never be universal trust of real estate agents, just as there won't be of Doctors, Attorney's, or certainly whatever profession you are in.
.-= Jeffrey Douglass´s last blog ..Last Park Terrace Studio Priced at $195,000 – Builder Closeout =-.

The client can choose to believe or not. The client can choose to up their offer or not. You keep going back to the "more than necessary" line but if the seller won't accept the buyer's offer than it is necessary to offer more whether or not another offer actually exists.

If the buyer gets his offer accepted for less than the list price is the agent liable to the seller for the $15,000 that was "stolen" from him if it is discovered that the buyer said he would not go any higher because he didn't qualify for a higher loan when in fact he could?

I guess I just don't get it.

I would think if any Agent asked their client if they would like them to verify that there is actually another offer before they go ponder the situation that most likely the client would appreciate being able to do that and many would avail themselves of the Service/openness of the Industry.

I wouldn't think in many cases they would say, No thanks I was thinking of bidding $15,000 more because there are no other offers and I don't want to blow this deal or I was thinking the Property is worth more and making another offer anyway...

If you are the BUYER and you have made a offer on a property (the only offer) and that place sits for awhile odds are in this housing market in many markets you got a shot especially if it's sits or the owners are desperate and if the offer is unreasonable the SELLER can refuse it...Too many possible Scenarios that could work in favor of the client/buyer to discard this thought when considering advantages, negotiations, prices ect...

But I guess I just don't get it....That's ok I'm not the industry with an image problem or trying to think of ways to gain consumer confidence....

Good luck, gonna go read the " Occum's Razor " theory

You say: "I would think if any Agent asked their client if they would like them to verify that there is actually another offer ..."

Again, my question is verify HOW? Please don't say that it's my problem because I've lost enough hair already during this conversation. As a listing agent, if I have an offer I say so and expect the buyer agent to take me at my word. As a buyer's agent, if I'm told that there is an offer by the listing agent I believe him. As far as I'm concerned there is no further verification needed. I have no reason to think that the other agent is lying as I don't see the point of the lie. The only way to have physical verification is if I actually see the offer in question which is not going to happen.

You say: "I wouldn’t think in many cases they would say, No thanks I was thinking of bidding $15,000 more because there are no other offers and I don’t want to blow this deal or I was thinking the Property is worth more and making another offer anyway…"

If you or your agent truly has a feeling that other offers are NOT on the table and the existence of another offer would be your sole reason for increasing your offer then you always have the option of calling bullshit. If the seller is bluffing he'll flinch and you win.

I guess my problem is that I don't understand what the benefit of this tactic would be in the first place. When a seller states that they have multiple offers they run the risk of losing a buyer who doesn't want to get involved in a bidding war. Why would they want to lose a possible buyer? If you make an offer and the seller isn't happy with it they can simply make a counter offer and open negotiations. By calling for "highest and best" as if they had multiple offers the buyer may up their offer but the offer may still not be what the seller wants. At that point the seller would still have to make a counter offer, so what's the point?

It's all relative to market value. If the buyer feels it's a good deal at one price point, is it still a good deal at the higher? A game of chicken with regards to call for highest and best, or being told there are other offers. Stay or raise. Much like poker.

Market value, market value, market value! :)

Even as a buyer's agent, I believe in the blind bid. I have to trust in my colleagues...and I say that with a sigh, because I know of a few bad apples. You read it the best you can and provide that info to your buyer. Am I right all the time, hell no. But, providing your client with the best info and explaining the game is all you can do.

Win or lose, don't descend to the level of the worst of the industry, rise to the level of the best.

"That is exactly the question I keep asking and no one wants to answer. How can we prove, other than our word, that another offer exists short of providing you a copy of the offer?"

And I already gave my answer/example and as far as how Agents verify to each other..

Your problem

As I have given mine.

I just went back and re-read all of your comments on this thread and nowhere did I see you offer any ideas. You just keep saying it's "your problem." That is not an answer nor is it helpful to the conversation. I don't hold an inherent distrust of agents, so the way I see it, it is your problem.

If you enter into a relationship, business or otherwise, already decided that you don't trust the other party then the relationship is set on a course towards failure from the get-go. In my years of experience and numbers of transactions, there are a lot more honest agents out there than dishonest ones so I tend to take them at their word unless I have reason to doubt them.

"In the quote of mine you are referring to I was talking about pricing information

not negotiation tactics."

I understand....the quote is true in one case..pricing information but not negotiation....

Isn't it the Consumer/client who decides to negotiate (through the Agent) or not and how much lee-way the negotiator (Agent) has? And based on what?

What's the point of worrying about negotiations in the presented Scenario anyway the Buyer ended up paying $15000 because there was no other offer. The buyer basically was negotiated UP in price by a non-existent offer.

"But we keep straying from the question"

Multiple offers is straying from the question... just confirm A offer exists first.

"Isn’t it the Consumer/client who decides to negotiate (through the Agent) or not and how much lee-way the negotiator (Agent) has? And based on what?"

Actually, by not accepting the offer as written, the seller has initiated a negotiation if he chooses to counter but of course, negotiations are between the buyer and seller either directly or through the agents. Agents have no power other than what is given to them by their client. The final decision is always made by the buyer and seller - agents are not principles in the negotiations.

The basis of the negotiation is what the buyer is willing to pay and what the seller is willing to accept (other terms are involved too, but let's keep it simple).

"Multiple offers is straying from the question… just confirm A offer exists first."

That is exactly the question I keep asking and no one wants to answer. How can we prove, other than our word, that another offer exists short of providing you a copy of the offer?

I'd like to address this theme also..

"The VALUE one places on a particular property really has very little to do with the PRICE. A buyer ought to make their offer on a property of interest based on their own perception of it’s value, not the perception of someone else who may be interested in the same property."

I do not see this as a discussion on why someone should or should not increase their bid. I see it as a discussion about..... Should a client have an expectation that when the Agent (Who is being compensated for their services, doesn't matter from who just that they are) representing them says...."There is another offer" it is indeed a fact.

Why?... James said it best early on in this thread.."The only way you can get screwed is by not being armed with the correct information."

Trying to dump the blame for paying more than necessary in a scenario like the one Jay presented back into the lap of the consumer with they should they should, it's their own fault seems to me (and I truly think most non-agents in the USofA would agree) to be a poor defense to shouldn't YOU (Agents) be able to verify an actual legitimate second offer actually exists.

Who cares why the people in this scenario raised their offer, the decision to do so was motivated by "There's another offer".... period. Why they decided to or if they should of or they should have known...Who cares?

Our comments are crossing over each other, so I already responded to some of this above.

In the quote of mine you are referring to I was talking about pricing information not negotiation tactics.

To reiterate, there is no such thing as "paying more than necessary" if the seller has said that they will not accept your offer. No matter how they say it, that is what they are saying. They are giving you the opportunity to increase your offer if you so desire. If you don't want to you don't have to.

But we keep straying from the question. What, as a consumer who does not trust the word of an agent, would you consider to be good-enough proof of multiple offers?

"unfortunate cop-out"

The Blog is a Question about should Agents be able to confirm the existence of another offer and if yes then how could it be done...I answered the first part of the question (Yes) and gave my reasons for my answer.

The second part of the question seems like something Agents should be more qualified than me to answer because it your system, your culture, your rules, your profession and your problem.....

Who's copping out by asking Consumers how to do it?

What would satisfy me? That you are able to verify the existence of another offer. Why?

1. I gave my reasons already

2. Want something that would satisfy me? A idea?.....Put the burden of honesty/accuracy on the Buyers Agent.

They can verify it (how? That's the industries problem to figure out) and if they don't the responsibility/ legal liability falls on them.

I know I have immediate action I can take/who to blame/who is responsible/whatever if the offer did not exist and that resulted in costing me more than necessary.

I wasn't referring to the blog question, I was referring to my question to you (actually to "Are You Serious?") which I thought you were replying to.

We're going around in circles now. I want to hear from an untrusting consumer what they would consider to be proof. If you're asking me to respond as "part of the industry," when I'm told by a fellow broker that there are other offers I have no choice but to take them on their word.

I still don't understand how you figure that there is any legal liability regarding the existence or non-existence of other offers. I also don't understand your repeated comments about the existence of multiple offers (or lack thereof) causing you to "pay more than necessary."

If you submit and offer and the seller states (or directs his agent to state) that there are other offers (when there are none) to entice you to up your offer and you decide that you are willing to pay more to secure the property how have you been wronged? The fact is, the seller wasn't willing to accept your offer as written and you were willing to pay more. You did not pay "more than necessary" because it was necessary for you to pay more for the seller to accept your offer.

Let's turn this around for a minute. If you submit an offer that is lower than you are ultimately willing to pay is that defrauding the seller? What if you submitted your low offer, were willing to pay more, but instructed your agent to tell the seller that the offer submitted is your best and final offer? What if the seller somehow found out that you were willing to pay more money, should he hold his agent liable? Your agent? What if the seller asks you for proof that you are not willing to pay any more for the property ... What proof will you provide?

We constantly have buyers submitting offers on multiple properties hoping that one will stick. Typically, the buyer does not disclose that they are doing so. My seller decides to accept the offer and we are told that the buyer has already opened escrow on another property so they no longer wish to move forward with ours. Is this tactic OK with you because it's the buyer doing it and not the seller? Should the seller have any recourse because the buyer did not tell the truth and disclose what they were doing?

The point is, once again, negotiation can be a rough thing to go through for both a buyer and a seller. You, as a buyer, need to work with an agent that will provide you the data to make an informed decision on your purchase. Before making your offer you should know what the property is worth by studying the comps in the neighborhood and know what your max is that you're willing to pay. If you decide to offer low and negotiate it does not matter what the seller's negotiating tactic is ... You know how much you're willing to pay and if you can get the property for that price or less you should be satisfied.

The thought just seems odd.....RE Agents cannot think of a way to verify if there is actually another offer as claimed by another Agent...

Alright I completely believe many Agents do not see a need to be able to verify....

Thanks for the discussion gonna go back to AgentGenius and finish reading the discussion on how to built Trust/Credibility with the public...

That's an unfortunate cop-out to a decent discussion. You were asked what you would consider appropriate proof.

As a broker, I say that my stating that one exists should be good enough because *I* know that I do not lie. Since you have an inherent distrust of my word as a broker, I'd sincerely like to hear any suggestions you may have so I can assure you that I do in fact speak the truth.

If you have a reasonable idea I would be more than happy to consider the suggestion and put it into practice so that when I come across a customer such as yourself I will be able to put their mind at ease.

It's funny...I am in FL which is pretty similar to AZ in terms of short sales, REO sales, etc. I get the same response from seller agents. IF the home is on the market for over 2 months, I always question them with the same "It's a remarkable coincidence" line. Jay, its funny because I start my response with the same 4 words you do! It's just short for telling the agent that they are full of sh!t....and they ought to know that.
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"We have to assume that our colleagues are honest otherwise the system fails."

Since we have examples above that strongly suggest that some agents are claiming multiple offers where none exist I agree. When proof is shown then no ones word is ever doubted. We can see the truth and not rely on hope. I hope that other agent is telling me the truth.

The system fails.

There will always be those that are not worthy of trust in any industry or life situation in general. My question from a few comments ago was "is it the norm?" It another case of "one bad apple" ... and please don't say there's more than one bad apple because obviously there is more than one and from your comments it seems you may have run into one or two of them in your own dealings.

You bring us back to the original topic of this post (thanks) ... What type of proof would be acceptable to you? I contended that the statement of the listing agent *should* be proof enough. We cannot provide copies of the offers, so what would you consider to be satisfactory?

Sorry, but I don't feel compelled to take on the task of boosting the image of the industry as a whole ... my shoulders just aren't that big. My business is built on my word and reputation so when my ethics or word are questioned by someone that doesn't know me from Adam pisses me off. There are way too many people to work with in the world for me to waste my time trying to right the wrong that was done to them by others.

Personally, when I work with another agent that I have not worked with before, I go into the relationship giving them the benefit of the doubt until they give cause to make me change my mind. We have to assume that our colleagues are honest otherwise the system fails. The folks involved in this conversation have either been screwed in the past or are inherently distrusting. That's understandable, but I am not their therapist and I am not the one who screwed them.

If someone comes to me with the attitude that I am going to screw them over I may try to show that I am not the same as the "last guy" but if after a few exchanges and they are still on the defensive I will not work with them as I have better things to do with my time and energy than to right the wrongs of the world.

Salespeople of ALL types have a perception problem in the world. That will never change. *I* don't trust salespeople. I guess that's why I've never considered myself a salesman ... I'm a consultant and a customer service rep. I suppose my way of seeing things comes from being in the construction and service business my whole life before moving into real estate. Contractors don't have the best reputation as a whole either so I guess I'm used to the adversity and tend to ignore it at this point in my life.

Both of you quoted my last line "If someone doesn’t take my word then that is their problem." What you didn't take away from that statement was that I stated that I am speaking for myself. I choose not to work with people that constantly question my honesty based on their past experience with others.

Jay, you said, "I know for a fact my clients can trust me completely. But I’ve still got to earn that trust with each and every one of them. And sometimes the arcane practices within real estate make this difficult." I totally agree with this and this is also my way of working. My statements are directed towards folks that are constantly questioning my word no matter how many times I show that I am trustworthy.

“If someone doesn’t take my word then that is their problem.”

I have to go with Dunes' take on this one.

It *IS* our problem. "Our" being the real estate industry in general. We've hot a HUGE perception policy within much of the general public. I know for a fact my clients can trust me completely. But I've still got to earn that trust with each and every one of them. And sometimes the arcane practices within real estate make this difficult.

We can't just say "trust me" and expect people to follow blindly. We've got to earn that trust.

I feel a blog post coming on... ;)

"If someone doesn’t take my word then that is their problem."

I disagree...If you are the one selling the Services then it's YOUR problem and that of the Industry you are part of. I think most people in the public would agree with me.

Not seriously considering the possibility I'm right is a Business decision in my view and all who are in Business are free to decide for themselves the importance of, the relevance of this or anything else they wish. It's your Business.

I'm just saying I'd consider it and I'd consider it Seriously. I'm also just saying why.

Credibility.... Because without that, hope of ever being considered a Business to Trust is unlikely.

@Joe Sheehan: You've hit the nail on the head. Thank you.

@Dunes: You hit it also. The concept is not difficult to grasp at all - the fact that the buyer would want to know if there are other offers has never been disputed. The issue that started this whole thing was that buyers/buyer's agents are wanting more than the listing agent's word that there are multiple offers. What else can we give other than our word? I will not be sending copies of the offers to other buyers which would be the "ultimate proof" I suppose.

I understand that there are agents out there who may lie and say they have them when they don't, but is that the norm? As I stated before, I only say I've got them if I do, so I can only speak for myself on this. If someone doesn't take my word then that is their problem.

And as far as I know no one is suggesting any Agent should reveal the terms of anything, just that the offer exists...It's as simple as that, confirming the claimed other offer actually exist nothing more than that..Don't care if the other offer is more, less.. just that the other offer claimed to exist by An AGENT actually exists.

How difficult is it to grasp the concept that a consumer may want to know that before offering more or that not being able or willing to confirm could be reasonable concern to consumers plus add to the Consumers already shaky view of Agents?

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